Can't find a flower girl

It's your wedding! Include who you want to include! I don't think it would be bad to make her a FG if you don't want to make her a Jr. BM.

My friend had her grandmothers sprinkle flowers, so in theory anyone can be a flower girl, woman or man.

Depends on her attitude, i think. I knew a 16-year-old once who was a flower girl and loved every minute of it. Then there are some 10-year-olds who think its babyish. Depends on the girl. my flower girl is 7 and she is positively thrilled

If you truly can't decide, you don't need a flower girl at all. You can always go with just a ring bearer. I'm not having either.

It is never to old to be in a wedding no matter what you job is. as far as the Jr bride part not being old enough to attend adult events, that is really just how you want it. Two of my BM are my daughters 13 and 16 they will be 14 and 17 at time of wedding and they won't be doing any adult stuff, but they don't seem to mind at all. you could have the 11 year old push the 1 year old in a stroller while she hold flowers. just an idea.

I didn't have either one. Worked out just fine. You are the Bride you set the rules. Good Luck

What if you had the 11 year old and the 1 year old both be FGs? The older girl can help the little ones down the aisle. Just a thought.

I have a friend who had a "flower teen" in her wedding party (a 14 year old taking the traditional role of "flower girl"). You could make FH's sister a "flower tween", perhaps? If you want to include her, you should, and use whatever title she is most comfortable with. I would advise not to use the 1 year old in the wedding party though. Toddlers can be extremely unpredictable in terms of behavior and temperament, and I'm guessing you don't want that kind of stress added to your wedding day.

I don't have a flower girl. My 3 year old nephew, instead of being a ring bearer, is going to carry a sign down.

I've been to a lot of weddings that didn't have a flower girl, ring bearer, or both. I wouldn't worry about it.