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Can't Decide

Blair, on November 21, 2019 at 3:26 PM Posted in Planning 0 25

I can't decide if I want my bridesmaids to all have their hair alike or let them wear it different. I like both ideas and they're all waiting on me to make the final decision. They say since it's my wedding it's ultimately up to me but I've been indecisive all my life lol

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Latest activity by Jennifer, on November 22, 2019 at 11:27 PM
  • N
    Master January 2015
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    I would definitely let them choose their own styles, especially if they're all in the exact same dress.

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  • Rhianna
    Devoted April 2020
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    I'm letting them all choose their own hairstyles. They all have different hair (colors, lengths, type) so i want them to feel comfortable in the style they choose.

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  • Chandra
    Master May 2019
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    I vote different! My girls had different length hair and I wanted them to feel comfortable in whatever style they chose. I know I hate wearing my hair some ways!
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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    I let my bridesmaids pick their own dress (with specific requirements), their own shoes, jewelry, hair & makeup (I paid for hair and makeup). I'm so happy I did, they all looked & felt beautiful!

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  • Jasmine
    Master August 2021
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    My girls will have whichever hairstyle they feel most comfortable in.

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  • Janiya
    Super June 2020
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    I'm opting to let my bridesmaids wear different hairstyles, as long as it looks good and not a crazy color, I'm fine with whatever they choose.

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    Please let them choose their own hair.

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  • Diane
    Beginner November 2020
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    I would go with different hairstyles.
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  • Blair
    Super June 2021
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    That was my original suggestion THEY told me to decide

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  • Blair
    Super June 2021
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    Absolutely beautiful! Smiley heart

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  • Mari
    Savvy May 2021
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    I actually chose the same hair style so my maid of honor could have a different one and stand out a little more. I tried picking something that would look good on everyone, they’re all very opinionated if they didn’t like it they would say so Lol
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    Totally understand. I'm just saying that you should tell them to pick their own!

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  • Kristen
    Master November 2020
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    Different esp if they're paying. My bf when i was a brides maid just gave us the time that she wanted half up, half down with some curls since she was going to have her hair all up. You could do something like that but let them choose their exact style.
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  • Kiara
    VIP August 2021
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    I had mines vote on which ponytail they all like but im not sure if imma let them do the 2different ponytails or go with the one i like..

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  • Nicole
    Super October 2021
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    Let them have their own styles! Smiley smile

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  • Samantha
    Dedicated March 2021
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    I was torn too and omg i saved those exact photos! To save me money from having girls have the same exact hairstyle I’m meeting myself in the middle and asking they all come with the hair curled to the side, whatever texture you want, silky curl, locs curled, kinky curled whatever lol.
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  • Samantha
    Dedicated March 2021
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    That way I don’t have to pay someone to make it exactly the same and it’s still somewhat the same if I just ask them come with hair curled to right side
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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
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    I’m a fan of letting everyone do something that makes them feel pretty. Everyone is not cut out for the same hairstyle.
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  • Nicole
    Super August 2020
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    I let my girls choose their bridesmaid dresses, they all have different necklines, but the same color and fabric. But I did tell them I wanted all of them to have their hair up since mine will be down. I just wanted to stand out as much as I could.
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  • Michelle
    VIP September 2021
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    I like that idea!
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