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SmileyBride
Expert October 2017

Canceling my bachelorette party *vent*

SmileyBride, on June 29, 2017 at 8:37 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 9
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I posted once before about one of my bridesmaids who was being difficult in the bachelorette party process. She was trying to be included by knocking everyone else's ideas. I am working like crazy... dealing with my own stress of the wedding as well as going to school full time. I just don't need the added stress. I just can't bare it. My sister is heading everything and keeping me out of it but one bridesmaid who is being difficult is always let me know things. My sister is doing her best to include everyone...I am just kind of over it! I am very low key, no drama just fun and laughter. I would rather not have a night were there might be some tension. Kind of a bummer! But I rather have peace for the next 105 days lol!! Well thank you to the vent Smiley sad

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Latest activity by Nonna T, on June 29, 2017 at 2:56 PM
  • Kmess
    Master October 2015
    Kmess ·
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    That sucks. Are you actually cancelling it?

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  • firstoneat56
    Master August 2017
    firstoneat56 ·
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    I understand the urge to remove the stress but don't throw the baby out with the bath water.

    Sit this bridesmaid down and have a frank talk with her. Tell her, without mincing words, that she is to stop the nonsense immediately or she will no longer be included. Then you need to follow through with the consequences if it continues.

    Don't allow one person to ruin everyone else's good time.

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  • FutureMrs
    Super January 2019
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    You shouldn't cancel just because one BM is being drama-filled. Shut her down, then have an amazing night out with your BM's.

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  • SmileyBride
    Expert October 2017
    SmileyBride ·
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    You all are right I need to grab some pardon my words but some balls! I just don't know the most direct way to say.. you are sucking the fun out of this

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  • mrsniedersmith
    Devoted July 2017
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    That is how you say it right there!

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  • cantwait4thedate
    VIP November 2017
    cantwait4thedate ·
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    You say it exactly like you just stated. You are sucking the fun out of this, and I will not allow it. This is supposed to be a happy time for everyone, but especially ME!! If you cant act like a F***ING grownup and knock if off, you are no longer going to be part of my wedding party, and can come as a guest!!!

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  • Spaghetti
    VIP November 2018
    Spaghetti ·
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    Lol just bring @cantwait4thedate with you to speak with them!

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  • Chelsealeigh218
    Super October 2018
    Chelsealeigh218 ·
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    Ugh, how frustrating! I do agree, have a talk with this BM, don't let her ruin your fun!

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  • Nonna T
    Master April 2014
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    You don't have to pardon your words, here they are called "bridal balls." Smiley smile

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