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StepDep
Dedicated May 2017

Can you register for too many things?

StepDep, on August 7, 2016 at 9:53 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 21

My wedding is a ways away still, but I wanted to get the registering out of the way. Thank you to girls and guys on here who made me realize I only need two registries. Both FH and I live with our parents, so we legit have nothing for our future apartment... My sister plans to invite about 55 to the shower and we are inviting about 175 to 185 to the actual wedding... We registered for so many things about 130 things at BBB and 75 things at C&B and are still changing things. Is that too much? We have really good price ranges though.. I'm just super excited about everything I saw and have already deleted some non-essentials.. But, man, I feel like it's a lot to ask for... I mean I know I will most likely have to fulfill some of the stuff on our own after the wedding... How much did you guys register for? Is this normal?? C&B made me feel like I need to register for a ton more stuff...

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Latest activity by Bee, on August 8, 2016 at 8:32 PM
  • BeachDreams
    Master May 2017
    BeachDreams ·
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    I am not really sure how much is too much. However, I would go back to update your registry as you get closer to your shower because some items may get discontinued.

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  • Mrs.D
    Master July 2016
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    If you have nothing... People will totally get it!

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  • StepDep
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    StepDep ·
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    BeachDreams, that makes sense. I tried to register at C&B with things that have been a while and are not seasonal, but I will continue to check it.

    Chelsie, that makes sense.. I hope my guests see it that way!

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  • E+T
    Super September 2017
    E+T ·
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    As long as you have various price ranges on your registry, which you said you do, I think you'll be all set! Most people will realize and understand you'll both be starting on your own for the first time and will need everything.

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  • StepDep
    Dedicated May 2017
    StepDep ·
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    @K&D17, like I still have the same bed that i had since I was like 4... haha. I hope people get it...

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  • Katherine
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    I think that sounds like a fine amount! I have about 300 items on my BB&B registry. That is mostly because I went with the open stock dishware, so literally 60 of those items are plates and bowls. You can always add more as PPs have said. I think guests like to have plenty of options!

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  • MrsMamaP
    Expert July 2016
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    After years of working retail, I can't tell you how upset people get when shopping for someone's registry and there is 3 things on there because there isn't a selection, or everything is online only. Variety is the spice of life!

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  • StepDep
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    StepDep ·
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    Okay, you guys are making me feel better! I think most of my registry is between $2 and $100, and then a few super expensive items.

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  • Crescent 1894
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    Crescent 1894 ·
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    Nope! The rule is 2 gifts per guest. So technically you should have about 370 to 375 gifts on your registry. Hope this helps!

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  • Erin381
    Master September 2016
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    If any thing that is not enough choices. I tried to picked 2 items per family invited so anyone who wanted to buy a gift had options.

    55 at a shower is huge however. This should be the women who are closest to you - 55 is too many imo

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  • StepDep
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    @Erin, I see your point with the shower, but a huge chunk of these women are all women that I have grown up and are basically considered to be more of family rather than friends... Although, I'm sure I can cut down the list a little more, but I'm sure my mom and sister will end up inviting who they want from the wedding list.

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  • GrumpyCatRebecca
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    I don't think that's remotely close to being "too much stuff". Keep in mind you also don't have to finalize the registry at any time. Go back after your shower and as your wedding gets closer and decide if you need to add more items based on how many were purchased after the shower.

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  • FutureMrs.Dyson
    Super December 2016
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    I don't think you can. It's not like you expect to get them all but you do want items in everyone's price range.

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  • FutureMrs.Dyson
    Super December 2016
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    I don't think you can. It's not like you expect to get them all but you do want items in everyone's price range.

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  • Sarah
    Devoted August 2016
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    No. It's very considerate, actually. This gives everyone something within their price point, so that the last-minute buyers will still have something to choose.

    Don't expect to get it all, but the more you have, the kinder toward your guests. (I'm the bitch who didn't register at all- and I'm starting to feel guilty)

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  • Sarah
    Devoted August 2016
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    No. It's very considerate, actually. This gives everyone something within their price point, so that the last-minute buyers will still have something to choose.

    Don't expect to get it all, but the more you have, the kinder toward your guests. (I'm the bitch who didn't register at all- and I'm starting to feel guilty)

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  • klimberkat
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    Echoing what pp have said that it's not too much. Also, most places give you a registry completion discount so even if no one gets it, if it's something you need, you can get a discount to buy it yourself after. We put a Roomba on ours knowing the only way we'd get it is maybe as a group gift (not likely)...we don't care, because we plan to save 10% and use our gift cards to buy it ourselves after the wedding.

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  • krclark7
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    Be careful that the items you register for aren't considered seasonal. My sister's list got a whole lot smaller, because she didn't realize that a lot of her items were going to be unavailable. (She registered about six months before her wedding.) just keep an eye on it and beef it up if necessary.

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  • BlueHenBride
    Master March 2017
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    I think it's better to have too many items than too few. It's actually frustrating if a couple doesn't register for enough and not have a lot of options when you go to purchase your gift for them.

    I'll second checking before your shower invites go out that nothing has been discontinued on both registries. I can't tell you how many non seasonal items have been discontinued on our C&B registry already.

    You can also go back after your shower and add to your registry if you receive more gifts than you expected. You should also recheck your registry when your wedding invites go out to make sure you've replaced newly discontinued items.

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  • L
    Savvy September 2016
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    Register for everything! A lot of stores will give you a percentage off of whatever hasn't been bought after the wedding.

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