We both want my wedding dress to be a surprise, but we are torn on the after-party dress. He loves to be involved, especially when it comes to picking out my dresses, but he also likes the idea of being surprised. I know it is jsut up to me, but I am so torn and was wondering if anyone has any key points to make that might sway me in either direction.
I am going to order a lot, try them on, then return the ones I don't want. I would REALLY like his help in choosing because ultimately his opinion is the only opinion I really care about, even more than my own. I just want to pick the one that he likes most. At the same time, we would also love the moment of him seeing the sexier dress I have picked out as a surprise. Both options are so good!
Any other pros/cons to either side that I am missing?
