Can I limit alcohol to my soon to be father in law at my wedding? He has had several dwis one less than 2 months ago where he hit 3 other vehicles and he was in the hospital for a week. The state that i live in doesn't seem to punish him enough and he was able to rent another vehicle. Previously he did drugs and drank he got on his motorcycle and hit a tree and had to be mercy flighted and broke his back and neck. This is nothing new. Not sure how to handle my wedding. It's only 25 people and I don't want to baby sit him. I called him to talk about it and he said don't worry about it. He hasn't stopped drinking and I don't want to be responsible for anything happening to him or someone else. That's horrible. This is giving me a lot of anxiety. We aren't close and neither is my fiance (his mom - now deceased from her drug and alcohol issues and him were awful parents) I didn't want to invite him but my fiance did.
The question is how do we limit or control his alcohol intake at the wedding? Thank you!