Sorry guys, slight rant coming. I’m so frustrated and I feel overwhelmed with planning at this point. Initially I wanted to get married at Philadelphia city hall with 8 guests and take them out to dinner after. After looking at our family and friends group we realized we couldn’t narrow it down that far. We agreed on 30 people including us and our 2 kids. We then decided on a nice park in the city with a reception in a private room at a hotel around the corner.
This is my first and hopefully only marriage so therefore my only wedding. Dancing isn’t a priority for us and we needed to keep our budget in mind. So this means that this is mostly just a big dinner with a ceremony before it. I’m doing my best to make it feel more like a wedding and not just a nice family dinner. We are having a small ceremony with short personal vows, I’m wearing a white dress, carrying a bouquet, getting valet for everyone, having signature drinks, etc.
Some days I still just consider going to the local courthouse with just our parents and eloping. Then having the dinner “reception/marriage celebration” later as planned since we already have the venue.
What it comes down to is, as a guest if there is no dancing or activities for you to do, just dinner- would it feel less like a real wedding to you?
If our guests are just just going to see this event as a big family dinner and not a formal wedding reception we could save the $400+ we are going to spend on the ceremony and just have a post-elopement dinner.
Also I would love any other ideas of what else could be done to make it feel more like a reception.
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