Holy frick my family. Back story is long and boring, but I am not really in touch with either of my parents. They were very abusive and are both diagnosed and treated for severe mental health issues. They also do not talk to each other or my siblings after a 10 year divorce process. My dad is now married to a 30 year old. Also, my wedding is ten days away.
Anyway, I decided to invite both my parents to my wedding with specific requests for them to behave (lol at my previous self). I decided to only invite my dad to the after wedding brunch as I do not want my mother to know where I live due to previous stalking. My dad has started to message me asking for me to make sure my mother does not come to the brunch or he will be unable to attend. I've told him that I cannot control if she shows up uninvited and it is his call either way. I am so concerned now about drama increasing the closer the wedding comes. I want to disinvite both of them and regret inviting them in the first place. I am worried that they will just show up to the event and cause drama if I rescind their invitations though. I feel so bad for inviting them in the first place, but my mom was doing a little better at the time of the save the dates and she's just gotten so much worse since then, probably in part due to me getting married.
