I have always participated in cake pulls as a single person up until my cousin got married and she chose to do pulls without "the ring" so I was allowed to participate even though I was engaged. I like the idea of including other girls who are friends who were not asked to stand in the wedding but I also like the idea of the single ladies only since that's what I've always know and I'm skipping the bouquet toss. What is cake pull etiquette? How is everyone handling their cake pulls? Can engaged girls participate since they are not married yet?