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Melinda
Expert March 2022

Buying parents gifts

Melinda, on August 17, 2021 at 12:30 AM Posted in Planning 0 7
My FH and I are in our early to mid 30s and are paying for our wedding 100% ourselves. Even when we’ve reached out to both sides the parents haven’t really helped even with opinions or expressing interest in the planning process. Do we still need to buy the parents gifts?
I am paying for my mother and his to get hair and makeup done already.

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Latest activity by Josie, on August 18, 2021 at 6:50 PM
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    Super December 2020
    Anais ·
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    I always think that gifts should be given to anyone that gives financially or with their time. If they’re not helping out at all, it’s not necessary to give them an extra gift, just treat them as you would your guests. Providing hair and makeup is enough and nice of you!
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    Super September 2022
    Sarah ·
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    I agree with Anais. If you don’t want to get them anything then it’s definitely not necessary. It’s very nice of you to pay for their hair!
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  • needmorewine
    Expert May 2016
    needmorewine ·
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    The point of parent gifts is to thank them for their love and support throughout your lives so far as you are now moving on to a new phase in life, and has nothing to do with what they have or have not contributed to the wedding itself. The gifts don't need to be expensive, just thoughtful.

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    Master July 2019
    Hannah ·
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    I agree with Anais. The gifts are to thank people for their financial or time commitments (that's why you give bridal party gifts). If the parents aren't helping in any way, then you don't need to get them a gift. If you'd like, you can give then a framed photo after you get the pictures back.
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  • Tory
    Devoted May 2022
    Tory ·
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    I agree with this as well. I don’t think you have to spend a ton of money on gifts, but something small that just is thanking them for raising you & being in your life is a sweet thought on one of the biggest days in your life. Even just a handwritten card would be a great idea without spending any money!
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  • Melinda
    Expert March 2022
    Melinda ·
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    Thank you all. I appreciate your advice!

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  • Josie
    Dedicated October 2022
    Josie ·
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    I would say wait until you get your wedding pictures back and maybe make them a photobook or frame a nice picture for them as a gift.

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