I guess a back ground would be, I’m currently 18 but I’ll be married right before I turn 20. Our date is June 26, 2021 so we have quite a bit till the day comes.
My oldest brother has a girlfriend, let’s say her name is Shay. They have dates for 4 years now and I’ve gotten pretty close with her being the only girl out of 3 kids. Me and my fiancé decided we weren’t going to have a wedding party, we are both college students so it won’t fit our very small budget and we don’t want to deal with the drama of who’s gets to be who because we both don’t have many friends. Finding this out. Shay yelled at me saying how it’s unfair she’s helping me plan but doesn’t get to be the maid of honor. Her planning has been what she wants for her wedding, not mine.I told her our colors and she tried to change them, and regarding the flowers, baby’s breath are my favorites and hydrangeas are my fiancé’s. She told me “you should have pink roses. Baby’s breath are so boring”. Then she complained we are having fake flowers, and yada yada yada. Everything we’ve chose she doesn’t like. She even tried to change our first dance song! Her main issue is how low the budget is and how it isn’t going to be “the perfect wedding.”The perfect wedding is marrying my fiancé, he’s my best friend and I’m not worried about spending lots of money on our wedding as long as he’s the my groom at the alter.My mom has tried to talk to her but she’s still so hateful towards what I choose..Any thoughts or advice?