I was talking to my mom about wedding planning and who our bridal party would be. I have three older brothers that are all 30+ and married, one with children, so I also have three sisters-in-law. My fiance and I want 5 bridesmaids and groomsmen. Mine are my friends from elementary school, high school, college, and study abroad, and his are also childhood/school friends. My mom thought that I should have my sisters in law as bridesmaids and he should have my 3 brothers as his groomsmen, since they're family, but the fact is, we are closer to our friends that we've known for years and there is a 8-12 year age gap between all of us.
He could have my three brothers as groomsmen over some of his friends, but I think I would feel weird walking down the aisle and seeing my older brothers standing at the alter with us??? I feel like they would rather sit with their wives, but I also don't want to disappoint my mom or have anyone feel left out.
Any advice or opinions?