Brother in laws wife

Wedding parties aren’t a tit for tat thing. You’re not obligated to have anyone as a bridesmaid.

No you don't have to have her in your wedding. Like Caytlyn said, weddings aren't a tit for that thing. Your bridal party should consist of people you are the closest to and can't imagine not having standing next to you.

Caytlyn’s exactly right. Have whoever you want in your bridal party. Don’t feel obligated to include anyone.

You aren’t obligated to have anyone in your bridal party that you don’t want to.

Not if you don't want her as a bridesmaid 🤷🏾‍♀️

Have who you want as your bride tribe. I’m having a MOH & 2 bridesmaids. Those are the most important ladies I want to be by my side.

No! Your day your bridal party! It's about who you want there not who think they should be there.

Goodness no. I didn’t have either of my SILs in my wedding party and that’s one step closer.

You don’t need to!

No you don't! You're not obligated to have someone in your wedding just because you were in theirs! Pick people that you want to have there, not people you think you're obligated to choose.

Your own siblings, or cousins need not be in your wedding, even if you love them very much. Your groom could have her on his side, his choice to make. But his sisters need not be included, either. If you choose only friends, or other people in the family, or nobody, that is your choice. About many things you need to compromise. Because something you do not want is considered good manners, or is decided by someone else. But if someone is pushing you, saying you ought to ----, the answer is that you are the bride, and it is traditionally up to you and nobody else, not even the groom or moms, to have anything at all to say about it. And you would appreciate their respecting that , and not making suggestions. You have decided/ will decide for yourself.

Do what YOU want-my FH isn’t even inviting his sisters to our wedding (his choice, long and toxic story). It should be the people you want to stand with you.

View Quoted Comment I really like what you said. Something about it made me feel good about my decision. Thank you.

View Quoted Comment Remember the day is about making you two happy-not everyone else! Enjoy yourself!

View Quoted Comment Thank you 😊. Truly