Do I need to have my sister in law in law ( brother in laws wife) as my bridesmaid even though she didn’t have me in hers? However she had me as an Usher in the wedding.
No you don't have to have her in your wedding. Like Caytlyn said, weddings aren't a tit for that thing. Your bridal party should consist of people you are the closest to and can't imagine not having standing next to you.
No you don't! You're not obligated to have someone in your wedding just because you were in theirs! Pick people that you want to have there, not people you think you're obligated to choose.
Your own siblings, or cousins need not be in your wedding, even if you love them very much. Your groom could have her on his side, his choice to make. But his sisters need not be included, either. If you choose only friends, or other people in the family, or nobody, that is your choice. About many things you need to compromise. Because something you do not want is considered good manners, or is decided by someone else. But if someone is pushing you, saying you ought to ----, the answer is that you are the bride, and it is traditionally up to you and nobody else, not even the groom or moms, to have anything at all to say about it. And you would appreciate their respecting that , and not making suggestions. You have decided/ will decide for yourself.
Do what YOU want-my FH isn’t even inviting his sisters to our wedding (his choice, long and toxic story). It should be the people you want to stand with you.
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October 2021
Megan ·
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I really like what you said. Something about it made me feel good about my decision. Thank you.
