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Megan
Dedicated October 2021

Brother in laws wife

Megan, on October 22, 2020 at 6:47 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 15
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Do I need to have my sister in law in law ( brother in laws wife) as my bridesmaid even though she didn’t have me in hers? However she had me as an Usher in the wedding.

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Latest activity by Megan, on October 29, 2020 at 2:11 PM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    Wedding parties aren’t a tit for tat thing. You’re not obligated to have anyone as a bridesmaid.
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    Master July 2019
    Veronica ·
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    No you don't have to have her in your wedding. Like Caytlyn said, weddings aren't a tit for that thing. Your bridal party should consist of people you are the closest to and can't imagine not having standing next to you.

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  • Samantha
    VIP October 2020
    Samantha ·
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    Caytlyn’s exactly right. Have whoever you want in your bridal party. Don’t feel obligated to include anyone.
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  • Stacey
    Super May 2021
    Stacey ·
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    You aren’t obligated to have anyone in your bridal party that you don’t want to.

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  • Yasmine
    Rockstar October 2020
    Yasmine ·
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    Not if you don't want her as a bridesmaid 🤷🏾‍♀️
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  • Michelle
    Rockstar April 2021
    Michelle ·
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    Have who you want as your bride tribe. I’m having a MOH & 2 bridesmaids. Those are the most important ladies I want to be by my side.
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    Devoted August 2021
    Ingrid ·
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    No! Your day your bridal party! It's about who you want there not who think they should be there.
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  • KiwiDerbyBride
    VIP May 2015
    KiwiDerbyBride ·
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    Goodness no. I didn’t have either of my SILs in my wedding party and that’s one step closer.

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  • Melle
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    You don’t need to!
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  • Shelly
    Devoted January 2022
    Shelly ·
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    No you don't! You're not obligated to have someone in your wedding just because you were in theirs! Pick people that you want to have there, not people you think you're obligated to choose.

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    Master 0000
    Judith Online ·
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    Your own siblings, or cousins need not be in your wedding, even if you love them very much. Your groom could have her on his side, his choice to make. But his sisters need not be included, either. If you choose only friends, or other people in the family, or nobody, that is your choice. About many things you need to compromise. Because something you do not want is considered good manners, or is decided by someone else. But if someone is pushing you, saying you ought to ----, the answer is that you are the bride, and it is traditionally up to you and nobody else, not even the groom or moms, to have anything at all to say about it. And you would appreciate their respecting that , and not making suggestions. You have decided/ will decide for yourself.
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  • Miranda
    Beginner July 2021
    Miranda Online ·
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    Do what YOU want-my FH isn’t even inviting his sisters to our wedding (his choice, long and toxic story). It should be the people you want to stand with you.
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  • Megan
    Dedicated October 2021
    Megan ·
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    I really like what you said. Something about it made me feel good about my decision. Thank you.
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  • Miranda
    Beginner July 2021
    Miranda Online ·
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    Remember the day is about making you two happy-not everyone else! Enjoy yourself!
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  • Megan
    Dedicated October 2021
    Megan ·
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    Thank you 😊. Truly
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