Bridezilla

Can’t say I have.

Before I started wedding planning, I prioritized what I thought would make me flip my lid, and took care of getting those things sorted first. My family and friends have all told me what a chill bride to be I've been, but really, its all due to thinking ahead. If I hadn't gone about it the way I did, I could have very very easily been a major bridezilla. I'm kind of scared that I've over looked something that could trigger me, but I feel I've done my best to try to circumvent that

So far so good. I definitely thought I would be because I'm a perfectionist and over planner, but I'm really trying to enjoy this time and have the ones around me enjoy it too! I still have time though so who knows what can happen 🤷🏾‍♀️. Everyone thinks I'll be one too, so you're not alone lol.

I have been pretty relaxed so far but that's because I have been really organised - as long as you aren't someone to get overly-focussed on tiny details and flip if they go wrong then I really think organisation is the key to staying chilled. But...I'm still 10 months out so we'll see!😁

So far so good. Thanks to planning ahead and being flexible, I’ve been pretty chill.
I joke with my FH that because thins have been going so smoothly, all of our drama will hit the week before the wedding.
But in all seriousness, I do see groomsmen not getting their tuxes when we tell them too. 😂

I think I’ve been really relaxed and most people have told me I’m really chill about everything. There was one moment when my sister called me a bridezilla. I gave all the bridesmaids the company, fabric, and color their dresses needed to be (dresses were available in a variety of price ranges). My sister wanted a dress that was a completely different fabric and therefore the color would have appeared darker than in the chiffon everyone else was wearing. I told her she needed to pick a dress in the correct fabric and it turned into a huge argument and resulted in me being a bridezilla, which I’m still not convinced that was a bridezilla moment!

I won't say I've had a Bridezillas moment just yet but there is potential still. I was raised in the belief get everything done as early as possible and my fiance keeps telling me things like "honey, we still have 10 months you don't need to stress over this" but in the back of my mind it's just "only 10 months!!!!! That's insane!!!"
So I keep trying to get everything done as soon as possible and everything squared away. I haven't freaked out on anyone yet but I have gotten very antsy