Bridezilla Moments

Mine was on my fh about my dress... he didnt think i should get my dress as early as i did! Well guess what it was 40 bucks i loved it and the alternative would have been getting it from db for almost 800 dollars ya no. My tax money my dress now. I was excited and i wanted to go look. He said no no it doesnt need to be done for months out yet.. well i got my dang dress

View Quoted Comment You just have to laugh! For real, if she wants to upcharge me for the Jameson we will stick with the seagrams. I'll also cancel all the extra apps and bar that we have upgraded. 🤷‍♀️ I'm not the one.

Okay not a Bridezilla moment but just had a great laugh at work. My MOH and I were chatting about my shower that's in two weeks and she let me know this one girl (a girlfriend of my FH's friend) told her she couldn't make it because she's going out of town with family. I said "okay". Not more than 5 minutes later, the SAME GIRL texts me saying "sorry I can't make it to your shower, I have work and couldn't get anyone to cover for me". Like, if you don't want to come, at least give us the SAME LIE to get out of it. Hahahaha. Really want to call this girl out but I know it's not worth it.

View Quoted Comment I hate when people do this! 🙄😤 like if you’re gonna lie to me at least be convincing. No bridezilla moment yet (although this would probably set me over the edge lol), but there’s still 5 months to go so anything can happen 🤷🏻‍♀️

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I'm sorry but I laughed so hard reading this, mostly because that's exactly how I'd be if that were me. Way to fight her on it!

View Quoted Comment Lol! She's telling me that a groom is telling her how to chop the vegetables for the dinner and you want to come at me?! No.

My bridezilla moment was when my FH wanted to add a guest to our ceremony that I really didn't want there. He didn't want her either, but felt obligated to invite her. His reasons were solid, but I spent a day crying. I knew I was being unreasonable and I compromised, but it was a really ugly cry. Lol

This would be my second marriage. My oldest sister and I had a disagreement that had nothing to do with the wedding, yet she called me a bridezilla. I had a miscarriage on 3.26.19. About a month after my mom and other sister went over to help her around the house. It was my first period since so I was more tired and crampier. She was picking like she always does. (Critisizing.) I told her to stop and she said why are you pissy? I told her that it was my 1st period since and that I was extra tired and crampy. She says we are all tired. I said nothing then she muttered unreal. I got up and walked out of her house. She texted me a few days later and called me a bridezilla. Even though our fight is nothing to do with our wedding. It's just such an ugly word. It's taking something that makes women happy and turns it into something ugly. I hate the word. It's a shame when it's used on women. Heaven forbid we have opinions about OUR weddings.

Btw, I am not trying to be mean. I'm just sticking up for brides and saying that the word is unkind to use on women. I feel bad for women who have that term used on them.

I don't know if this is a bridezilla moment, or just a natural reaction.

We went through precana and spent 8 months trying to make time to talk to FH's parish priest about getting married in the church.

He denied us 3 1/2 months out.

I've been *furious* ever since, and while FH still wants to keep talking to the priest about later blessing our marriage, I don't ever want to step foot in a church again. (Obviously, this is an ongoing discussion, but at least FH understands why I am so angry. Feel free to look up my posts on how precana went.)

My MOH is also trying not to burden me, but apparently some of the bridal party is... causing drama. And if they make my MOH upset, I'm going to get Annoyed. (She is an amazing human and is going WAY above and beyond for me because that's just the kind of Hufflepuff she is.)

Mine was in private. The grooms lady was being so bad about picking out her dress. But she is a bigger girl so I said silver or gray would work. She was having a hard time finding something so I said navy could work also. (You can find a billion dresses all sizes in navy) she does not like navy she said. So I lost it talking to my fiancé. Then we still had trouble with her. I did not even care if she got the dress I just wanted to know the Color so I could tell the other grooms lady. She finally picked the dress and she is wearing that dress. Cause I told the other grooms lady the color. If we have to do this again she will see a bridezilla

I was running late to the church. I had to turn back three times. It was hot, I was hungry. It had been raining. Once at the church, my incredibly clumsy nephew promptly almost drops my turquoise heels in a giant mud puddle. Not just any old puddle but a red clay mud puddle (it's a southern thing). I lost it. I yelled, "Who the h*** gave him my shoes?!" Yes, in the parking lot of the church... In front of my husband's supervisor. Thankfully, my shoes were ok and my husband's supervisor carried them in for me.

View Quoted Comment That strange but yes maybe she is having money issues.

View Quoted Comment Omg I am the same way!! I want to be fit so
bad and if anyone screws with my cheats it is over. You were totally justified!

View Quoted Comment I’m so sorry about your miscarriage! I have never experienced a miscarriage, but I have a couple friends who have and I know they were absolutely devastated and a wreck afterwards. Your sister definitely should have shown you some support instead of being negative.
I agree with you that calling another woman a bridezilla is done in a hurtful and negative way, but I also feel like by claiming that title we take the power away from it being used against us. I don’t know if that makes sense, it’s not really coming out the way it is in my head.