Hello! I'm a long-time lurker and have found a lot of your advice to be helpful, so thank you for that and nice to officially to be on here! :-)
I've looked around for this topic here and on other sites, and have not found much information. Mixed-gender wedding parties seem to be fairly new so maybe that's why I'm not finding much. So basically, my WP is 9 people, including both men and women. My fiancee and I are each doing our own bachelorette party. I am not planning the stereotypical bachelorette party, but was thinking of doing a day trip somewhere close by, and this may possibly involve an overnight stay. I was just thinking of it as a fun trip with my WP, which are my siblings and closest friends, and I wanted to include them all. When I looked up including male attendants at pre-wedding events, I came across one post from a girlfriend of a bridesman who was very bothered about her boyfriend going to a bachelorette party. I do not want my (continued in comments)
