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Kylie
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Bridesmaids

Kylie, on October 11, 2019 at 2:45 AM Posted in Planning 0 18
So this may sound a little weird but I genuinely need unbiased opinions. I have several very very close best friends. Each one came into my life at different times and has helped me through different life events. But I can’t pick one to be MOH. Do I just keep all 3 as bridesmaids or pick the one I’ve known longest? Have you had this scenario? What did you do?

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Latest activity by Amanda, on October 11, 2019 at 11:24 PM
  • Naikesha
    Super September 2020
    Naikesha ·
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    If you can't pick one then I would make them all bridesmaid but tell them exactly how you feel. that they have all come into your life and different points and you love them all equally and couldn't pick anyone better to support you on your special day!

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  • Gabriella
    Dedicated November 2021
    Gabriella ·
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    I couldn’t decide on my matron of honor so I’m going to ask 2 girls to be mine. They are both super important to me and have came into my lives at different times! And then I’ll have 4 bridesmaids. I don’t know if that helps or not!
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  • Mrs. Bubba
    VIP September 2019
    Mrs. Bubba ·
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    I had 2 MoH and 2 Bridesmaids.

    Could you have 3 MoH?
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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
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    I would keep them all as bridesmaids so they all feel equally honored and important.

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  • Amber
    Master February 2020
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    I've always been a believer that how long you've known someone doesn't necessarily correlated with how close you are to them. You said you're very close to all of them, so I think choosing the girl you've known longest would ruffle some feathers. I would make all of them bridesmaids UNLESS you're having other bridesmaids as well, then I would make all three of them MOH's.

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  • Kylie
    Dedicated October 2022
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    I’ll have 6-7 bridesmaids but the 3 are the only ones that are close friends. 2 will be my younger sisters and another will be my FSIL
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  • Amber
    Master February 2020
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    In that case, I would make all three of them MOH's to set them apart from the rest of your bridal party! Smiley smile

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  • Kylie
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    Kylie ·
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    Great idea!! Thanks so much!!
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  • Emma
    Devoted March 2021
    Emma ·
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    I only have 2 girls and I'm just calling them both bridesmaids.

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  • L
    Lady ·
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    You don't have to pick one.

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I would also just make them all bridesmaids
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  • Taylor
    VIP October 2020
    Taylor ·
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    I have 7 girls in my bridal party. My sister is my matron of honor and my best friend/ the one that I knew would be the most helpful and reliable is my maid of honor. I could have just had my sister as my matron but she lives on a different continent and I knew my best friend would be the one to help me with planning. I wanted to honor her support.

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  • Future Mrs X
    Dedicated January 2021
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    I have 8 bridesmaids, two of which i asked to be my co-mohs. My fiance however says they're all his best man that's why he wants them by his side and he plans on telling them just that.

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  • Yoice
    VIP March 2019
    Yoice ·
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    I had 4 bridesmaids and couldn’t pick between 2 to be my MOH so I had 2. I think you can just have them all as bridesmaids if you can’t pick or you can also choose the one you think would be most helpful not necessary the one that you known the longest.
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  • Kylie
    Dedicated October 2022
    Kylie ·
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    Thank you all!
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  • Brittany
    Super May 2020
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    I made them all MOH's

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  • Caitlin
    Devoted June 2021
    Caitlin ·
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    I would personally just have them all be bridesmaids, no maid of honor if they truly are the same amount of closeness to you!
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  • Amanda
    Master December 2020
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    I would choose the one that would be most helpful, most reliable, one that could take charge if needed or rally up gifts at the end of the day, etc!
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