Bridesmaids

I wouldn't ask until you're at best a year out. Friendships / relationships change. You'll read through here a number of women that asked someone early and then regretted it.

I probably would do it sometime next year, maybe summer so they can be prepared to spend money on their dresses etc. Unless you plan on paying for everything. My wedding is March 2021 and I asked my bridesmaids November/December of last year.

I’d say about 8-12 months out. I asked mine in October 2019 and were getting married October 3rd. Though even then I had one girl completely ghost me on the subjects. Needless to say, she’s not a bridesmaid anymore

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That's why I opted no BMs and no MOH... the only one standing with us will be my future step son (10)

View Quoted Comment We almost didn’t have a bridal party. Part of me wishes I would have gone through with that, the other part of me is happy to have my sister and best friend standing with me

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I understand that!

I would ask a year before, i feel.

I asked 14 months out I knew dresses were on back order so i wanted to ask a tad early but now we are going with azazie so we wont order till March for my july wedding.. oh well

I suggest 8-10 months out. Relationships absolutely change, and I've heard people express regret over their wedding party choices. It never hurts to wait a little bit before asking.

I would ask about 1 year out. A lot can happen from now until9/2021.

Honestly thank you for asking this I am getting married in October 2022 myself and was wondering the same thing.