Bridesmaids - to match, not to match, or to match a little??

I would have them all wear the same color, but let them pick their own style.

I let mine wear their own style as long as it was within a pink color scheme.

I requested each girl wear a different style of dress (same color/fabric/length) and I loved the way it looked! Most of my friends have done this same method and it looks very nice and still cohesive.

Initially I thought I wanted all my girls to match head to toe. Then I realized that if all 4 of them were the same person I would have to murder them haha. So I opted for the same color, but they get to pick their own style and hair. Besides that, for me it's important that they feel like themselves and not a puppet.

Thanks for the help everyone! I am thinking of having them all wear something different but same length and it has to be one of 3 shades of lavender that I sent out.

Since the dresses & suits will already be different, I'd try to order the dresses/suits from the same company in the same fabric so it doesn't differ too much.

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That's a really great idea. I don't want it to look too mismatched. Thank you!!