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Bridesmaids that don’t get along

C, on February 24, 2020 at 2:08 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 5

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I want to have three of my good friends be my bridesmaids, but they hate each other. We were all really good friends in school and for a multitude of reasons they don’t speak to each other anymore and really don’t like each other. Will this be an issue? They are all my closest friends and I’m hoping they will be able to set aside their differences/pasts and be cordial and friendly for the bachelorette party and wedding. I would choose just one or two of them but that would upset the other/s and I am honestly so close to all three

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Latest activity by Naikesha, on February 25, 2020 at 3:44 AM

Legend June 2019
Melle · on February 24, 2020 at 2:18 PM
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Yikes. I hope that they can be mature enough to know this is for you and to be cordial enough to work together
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Legend November 2019
Caytlyn · on February 24, 2020 at 2:30 PM
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None of us know your friends, so we don't know if it will be an issue. Of course your friends should be able to act like adults and tolerate each other for your sake, but only you know if that's possible.
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Expert February 2020
Jessica · on February 24, 2020 at 2:49 PM
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I sure hope they can put their issues aside to celebrate you. I had a somewhat similar situation with my girls, they didn't all know each other directly but they had known of each other; there are intertwining relationships. Some had falling outs and others only knew them from past reputations. Thankfully they have been able to set aside those grudges to help me celebrate my soon to be wedding.
If I were you I would have a talk with each of them and if they don't agree that they can play nice let them know that you can't include them in your party.
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Savvy May 2022
Tia · on February 24, 2020 at 5:28 PM
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I hope that for you they can get along and help share in your special day. Just do not expect them to be friends afterwards.
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Super September 2020
Naikesha · on February 25, 2020 at 3:44 AM
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Have a sit down with each of them and if they agree I would keep the interactions to a min. not shopping trips together or what not ut let them know your expectations up front and how drama free you need this to be.
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