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Meghan
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Bridesmaids shoes

Meghan, on December 29, 2020 at 10:48 AM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 12
My bridesmaids have picked out their dresses but I’m stuck on shoes. We did dusty blue long dresses from David’s Bridal. I’m thinking maybe silver shoes? Do I pick out the shoes or could I let them pick their own as long as they’re silver?

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Latest activity by Michelle, on December 29, 2020 at 6:18 PM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    All the same color is fine. If they’re wearing long dresses, no one is going to see their shoes anyway.
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  • Chrysta
    Master November 2022
    Chrysta ·
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    I think it’s always nice to let them pick their own within the color you specify. That way you know everyone is comfortable and purchasing items within their budgets. (Plus, to be honest, none of your guests will be paying attention to your bridesmaids shoes, unless they are wearing short dresses)
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  • Gabbysitaxo
    Dedicated October 2021
    Gabbysitaxo ·
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    Some girls like heels vs flats, or vise versa. Also, if the dresses are really long, they wont be seen much. So to maybe ease your stress, allow them to pick the shoes according to the color you wish, like silver.

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  • V
    Champion July 2019
    Veronica ·
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    I would definitely let the girls pick their own shoes, but in whatever color you would like. I just asked my girls to wear silver shoes. I didn't care what they looked like as long as they were comfortable and the right color. All but one choose to flats.

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  • Meghan
    Master October 2019
    Meghan ·
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    I let my bridesmaids pick whatever shoe they wanted in "nude". I figured everyone probably already had a pair of nude colored shoes, and if not, they could definitely wear them again if they had to purchase some.

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  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
    Mrs. Spring ·
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    I recommend letting your bridesmaids pick them out.
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    Super April 2021
    Tiger Bride ·
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    I didn't want to pay, so I asked them to pick shoes they liked in a color that went with their dress. I think I would have preferred/do prefer nude, but I didn't want to be too demanding. In hindsight I might have asked them to do nude.

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  • Yasmine
    Master October 2020
    Yasmine ·
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    All my bridesmaids are wearing the same shoes but I offered to purchase them all. They're doing navy dresses with silver shoes.
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    Silver sounds really nice for that color dress

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  • C
    Master January 2019
    Cassidy ·
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    My girls had long dresses and I told them to pick their own. I told them as long as the were nude, black, or silver I didn’t care. And honestly I can’t remember what they looked like and you can’t see them in pictures.
    Let them pick their own and don’t stress over this.
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  • CountryBride
    VIP April 2022
    CountryBride ·
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    No one is going to see their shoes so in my opinion I would just let them wear whatever they wanted

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  • Michelle
    Rockstar December 2022
    Michelle ·
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    No one will see or care what they look like. Just tell them to find a comfy pair of silver shoes. Anytime you pick something out, you need to be prepared to foot the bill.
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