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Conner
Just Said Yes November 2020

Bridesmaids proposal?

Conner, on November 1, 2019 at 11:27 AM Posted in Planning 0 10
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I’m newly engaged and plan on starting my wedding process after we get settled into our new house. Sometime after the new year. We have looked at venues and planning has started but I’m waiting to set a date until we are settled in so it’s not added stress for us. However, my sisters and family members are going to by myself bridesmaids. I am ready to ask them and I feel like they are waiting for me to but I dont know if it’s inappropriate since I do not have a date set yet! Thanks for helping guys!

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Latest activity by MrsD, on November 4, 2019 at 12:51 PM
  • Conner
    Just Said Yes November 2020
    Conner ·
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    *going to be my bridesmaids
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  • Jennifer
    VIP August 2021
    Jennifer ·
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    I feel like since it is family members, it is fine to ask them whenever you'd like! They would most likely attend no matter the date since you are related, so in your case, I think it's fine! Smiley smile

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  • V
    Devoted August 2020
    Valerie ·
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    Wait until you at least have a date if not a venue booked. You at least want to be able to share with them concrete info like a date and a place.
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  • Stephanie
    Dedicated November 2019
    Stephanie ·
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    I would also say wait until you have a date!
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  • J
    Master October 2019
    Jolie ·
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    Set a date, then ask. Your bridesmaids should never be asked further than one year out as you could run into issues. They don't have any roles til later on in the planning year anyway.

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  • M
    Expert October 2021
    Megan ·
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    I'd even go a bit further and say that around nine months out (depending on your type of wedding) is a good time to ask bridesmaids. Even if it's family, relationships and circumstances can change.

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  • Tara
    VIP November 2016
    Tara ·
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    I think it's totally fine to ask them now! You know you want to get married and you want them by your side, so why not ask now?! Especially if they kind of expect it. It's totally fine to start planning in terms of getting ideas of what you may want.

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  • E
    Devoted November 2019
    Emily ·
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    You can ask them anytime ! I understand wanting to wait.
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  • Ann
    Devoted September 2021
    Ann ·
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    I don’t think there is ever a wrong time to ask someone to be in your wedding! My best friend asked me to be her MOH and her wedding isn’t for another 3 years and does not have a date set! She actually said she did it that way, so I can help her with everything!
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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
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    I would just ask and let them know you don't have an exact date yet.

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