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Just Said Yes December 2020

Bridesmaids or No bridesmaids?

Brianne, on September 14, 2019 at 10:55 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 6
Hi everyone! So my wedding is next December 2020(Winter Wonderland wedding) and everything is going great with planning the wedding. However, I have one problem I have no friends which means I won’t have any bridesmaids. It sucks but I haven’t had any friends in a long time and trying to make new ones as an adult is hard. Idk what to do because my fiancé has a few groomsmen that he is close with but I don’t have anyone. Will it look bad if I don’t have any friends at all supporting me through this? Should we not have any bridesmaids or groomsmen? What should I do???

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Latest activity by Cher Horowitz, on September 15, 2019 at 4:06 PM
  • Destiny
    VIP May 2020
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    What about sisters fsil or cousins? i would have had my brothers gfs(fiances/bms?) idk what to call them anymore lol im in the same boat no friends

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    Dedicated November 2020
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    I wasn’t going to do a wedding party at all cause I didn’t want to deal with the drama or trying to decide which friend is closer to me than another. My mom suggested we pick my brother and my FH’s sister as Best Man and Maid of Honor, so because of that suggestion, they’ll be the only two beside us. Maybe you have a family member or two that you’d like beside you, but if not it’s okay to forego it completely. I understand where you’re coming from, cause I feel I have a lot of good friends, but no best friend (except my FH) and it is hard to make new friends as an adult. I don’t think anyone would care or think it odd if you just didn’t have a wedding party.
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  • Miranda
    Dedicated September 2020
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    We are not doing a wedding party. Mainly because our guest list is only about 20 people. It was also because like you I don't have very many friends in fact I only have one close one and the rest of us have just kind of drifted apart. But then another reason is because the fake feud my sister and my best friend had over who would be my MOH. Granted they were joking I found out I still felt like I would hurt one of them with my decision. So what we are doing is not having a bridal party at all. Though my sister and best friend are both going to plan events and were going to get the fun shirts that you can get just for the fun of it.

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    Just Said Yes December 2020
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    I don’t have any sisters or cousins that are girlsSmiley sad. But I have 2 aunts that I am close with so I could have them maybe. Or I just might not have any bridesmaids to make it easier.
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  • Ali
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    Me and my FH are just doing a family bridal party. I'm having my 2 sisters and he's having his dad and cousin.
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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
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    It's totally fine to have uneven wedding parties! I don't think it's fair to not let FH have groomsmen if he wants them.

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