Bridesmaids Not Doing Anything!

Seriously?? I wouldn't throw any parties either since you think you're entitled to them! They probably don't like you.

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Give us some background info, how many bridesmaids? How many of them have kids? How old are the kids? Who are these people in relation to you? They all said they couldn't throw you a shower and bachelorette because of their kids? Something's not adding up, more info please.

You're such a pleasant person I have no clue why they wouldn't spend hundreds of dollars on you

This always ends well...lol.. Bring me my wine...

........well this is annoying, exactly what did you want us to say to your brattiness?

get over it dude.

I always like to imagine these types of posts, the David posts, and the "my e-ring isn't expensive enough" posts being made by the same person. Then I imagine how miserable their lives are.

They don't have to do anything, kids or not. They need to show up, wear something you asked them to, not throw up at the wedding, and tell you how great you look. The last two are negotiable.

I hear there' a service that rents bridal parties. Maybe that's a good way to go.

@Celia-- how much to rent-a-bridesmaids make? (Not that I'd choose to be in OP's bridal party-- sounds like high expectations.)

This is pretty strange but you are lucky that you have good friends (even if they weren't asked to be BM) that are offering to step up and plan these fun events for you! Be gracious to them and invite your BM to the events.

OP here is just my two cents your bridal party doesn't have to do anything like the other girls said but show up to the wedding and wear the dress you picked. Bridal showers and Bachlorette parties are optional. I will say having anyone in your bridal party with kids is hard and you have to remember their families come first and your wedding will never be as important to other people as it is to you. Its not to be mean I'm sure if they could afford all these things they would do it but you have to remember they have lives outside of your wedding and events. Let's be happy your other friends who can afford to do these things for you are.