Bridesmaids fighting over Bachelorette party

You should stay far, far away from this drama.

They are adults- they should be able to figure this out without involving you.

And Drama it is...I hate that I'm having to play mediator to grown girls!

I would stay out if it. The bachelorette is a party being thrown in your honor. You technically shouldn't be involved in the planning. I know it sucks to see your friends fighting, but they will work it out.

So, I know everyone says you shouldn't be involved in the planning. But I think in this situation it might be better to step in and just tell them what you prefer if they can't agree on things.

Let them hash it out. They're adults. You don't need to play mediator.

What sort of things can't they agree on? Two of my bridesmaids are planning my bachelorette and they've clued me in on some stuff (like asking where I want to stay) but everything else going on in bachelorette emails they're keeping me in the dark on.

The exact same thing happened to me and my sister is my MOH and was upset so she told me which made my best friend VERY mad that she involved me and now I'm basically in the middle of it. They figured it out but there is a lot of resentment built up around it from all parties and their snide comments still get thrown my way sometimes. It's a horrible situation to be in, so try your best to ignore it, even if they pull you into it. It's ridiculous that they can't be mature about it - totally feel you on that.

Shame on them for bringing you in the middle of it!! They need to handle it on their own and let you deal with more important items.

I totally agree ladies but I had to step in as insults and name calling ensued...

I say stay out of it. And also depending on the type of bachelorette party they are playing now may not be too soon, if it is one of those long weekends away that involves time off work, flights, etc.

It's 2 days before wedding. Just a whole day no weekend I have 3 kids lol

If they can't get along, I'd be inclined to tell them you won't be going to the party- doesn't sound like it's shaping up to be a very good time :/