Bridesmaids did not attend wedding shower or send a gift.

If they didn’t attend, nor send a gift, you do not need to send a thank you card.

Yeah I would not send a thank you card. I mean they cannot get offended. You only send those when people attend an event or give a gift.

I agree with the previous comments, I don't think a thank you note is necessary. If the topic comes up over text or phone call, you can tell them at that time that you missed them at the event and hope to see them soon.

Thank you cards are for gifts. You don't have anything to thank them for.

No thank you cards if they didn't purchase you anything

Did they chip in anything to host the shower? If yes, send a note. If no, don’t send one - nothing to thank them for.

View Quoted Comment This. I understand thanking them if they helped with the planning and paid for a portion despite being unable to attend, but if not, then you're good!

I don’t think you need to send a thank you note

Send nothing. There is nothing to thank them for.

Definitely don't send a thank you card if they didn't give a gift or contribute. It would come off as very passive aggressive to do so.

There is nothing to thank them for so they shouldn’t get a thank you card.

I would not send one, maybe they plan to give you a gift at a later date so I would save a couple thank yous for later.

If they helped pay for the party, then a thank you note would be a nice gesture. Otherwise, it's totally unnecessary.

No you dont need to send a thank you card, nor should they be expecting one. They didnt do anything lol

Thank you cards are for presents. If they did not give you a present, you don't need to write them a card.

If they contributed to the cost or work of prepping for a shower, but could not attend, they are due a thank you gift for that. Otherwise, no gift, no thank you. You do not send thank you notes for coming, only gifts. At wedding gift time, early gifts, you send a thank you note as soon as possible. They will not get a thank you for coming to the wedding, only for gifts, or services.