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Michelle
Just Said Yes May 2020

Bridesmaids can’t get along for

Michelle, on March 15, 2020 at 11:28 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 1 3
As if planning a wedding isn’t stressful enough, with 47 days to go, I just had the surprise for my shower ruined because my bridesmaids are fighting amongst themselves. Not that I like surprises anyway, but I’m so beyond irritated and frustrated at this point. Apparently my sister, who is the matron of honor, wanted to postpone the shower until April.....after all the Coronavirus crap settles down, because I’m now 11 weeks pregnant and she was concerned about me being out in public. Another bridesmaids, my bff, offered to cancel it allowing my family in another state to set something up separately. My sister didn’t like that response and decided to drag politics into it and started calling my bff names because she, like myself, is a Trump supporter.


Are you freaking kidding me right now??? Now I’m so stressed out that all I want to do is just cancel everything and go get married at our courthouse.

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Latest activity by Patrice, on March 16, 2020 at 5:26 AM
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    Super October 2020
    Leslie ·
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    I’m sorry that this happened. I hope you were able to try and enjoy the day. I think everyone is just super stressed right now. It doesn’t matter what side of the aisle you’re on, keeping care of each other and love is all that matters. Do what is best for you and FH.

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    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    Gosh I’m sorry that happened Smiley sad I hope they all get it together and realize at the end of the day they need to be cordial and work together for your sake
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  • Patrice
    Dedicated September 2021
    Patrice ·
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    Wow, that's a lot! It certainly sounds like everyone is extremely stressed out and people are lashing out their frustrations. First of all, take a breather. You're expecting so it's super important for you to be proactive in your own health and well being, and not let others' emotions dictate any further what will or will not be for your big day. Secondly, discuss things over with your FH. What are his thoughts? Bringing him into this part may help alleviate the obligation of feeling like you have to handle this particular issue alone. I hate the fact that the drama erupted because it sounds like, in a very emotional way, they are both trying to do what they feel is best for you. Maybe sit them down one on one and let them know that firstly, you recognize that they love you and they were trying to communicate that in what they did, but secondly maybe it didn't translate as clearly as they intended and really, all that needs to be done now is just to simmer down, relax, and allow things to organically smooth out. Lashing out like that happens when people feel they've lost control and unfortunately, this coronavirus pandemic is out of EVERYONE'S control. Do what is best for you, baby, and FH and still enjoy this beautiful time of becoming Mrs.

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