I know it's too early to be thinking about this, but the topic randomly came up the other day with my partner and we really do not see eye to eye.
What do you do when one person wants a bridal party and the other doesn't? I always imagined my wedding day with both bridesmaids and groomsmen, but FI doesn't like the whole concept of picking special people to designate as more important than other guests (he also finds it frivolous and unnecessary and overly formal, particularly matching outfits). He says I can have bridesmaids if I want, but he doesn't want groomsmen.
Has anyone seen this? If we end up doing this, how would this work logistically in terms of reception entrances, group photos, the ceremony, and limo ride (if you had those things)? Would it be odd to have events and photos of just me, him and a bunch of girls? Or even weirder, have 5 girls in matching clothes together with other friends of his who are not 'officially' in the wedding party?
Any thoughts?