Bridesmaid

I don't know. You can talk it out and see where you're both at but it sounds like... Do you want someone that is wishy washy?

I don’t think you’re supposed to ask her again but I think it’s a little weird that you’re close enough to her to ask her in the first place but all you said was “ok” when she said she wasn’t in your wedding anymore.

See i only said okay because my wedding is 500days away and even if i asked her why she wouldnt have said anything because she was talking crap about me even though i havent even done anything and she was fighting with everyone in our family so when she gets mad she takes it out on everyone . I would like for her to be a bridesmaid but because of the way she is i don't want her to just keep backing out all of the time .

Yeah, I wouldn't play those games with her. I would just ignore her if it were me.

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I agree, I wouldn't welcome the drama she might bring and just ignore the hints.

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Being that your wedding is very far out, I would wait to approach this topic. Realistically you should have waiting to ask ANY of your bridesmaids until at least a year out, preferably 8 months.

View Quoted Comment Well all of my bridesmaids knew they were gonna be bridesmaids as soon as i got engaged. It was no surprise when i asked them so thats why i asked so early so it wouldn't have to be something to worry about later on . And that way it gives them time to save up for dresses and whatever else they want that has to do with my wedding.