So my sister/MOH is planning my bachelorette and bridal shower. I know little to none information about those events because my sister is planning everything. One of my bridesmaids is my best friend since middle school. She told my sister (not me) that she couldn't make it to the Bachelorette because she has to work. When my sister told me this, it didn't surprise me, plus even if she didn't work I wouldn't expect her to come because social scenes are not her thing. My sister recently told me the date of my bridal shower and it's the same day as my bridesmaid's birthday. Few days later (mind you she has not talked to me about anything of my wedding) I texted her saying that I'm so sorry that my bridal shower was on her birthday but if she wasn't busy, I hoped that she could stop by for whatever time she has. She texted back saying that she doesn't exactly know what is happening but she thinks she won't make it because she has already plans for her birthday. Which I replied to saying like yeah that makes sense. Then I ask about if she could come to my Bachelorette (just to see what she said) and she replied with how she works every weekend now.
I don't really know to feel because I totally understand that work is a priority, but I guess I'm just sad that she didn't show any sadness in not being able to come to either event. Like if it was me , I would be like omg I'm so sorry, I can't make it but I can't wait for you to tell me how it goes or something like that. I don't know if I'm overreacting and need to understand her situation better? I just feel crumpy too because I only have 2 bridesmaids and 1 moh so my support system in terms of bridal party isn't that big to begin with because I wanted to have my girls being there for every important wedding event.
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