Bridesmaid

I'd be ok with it aha. I think that's fine if there's not going to be anymore photos

I'm impressed she even asked honestly. If i was uncomfortable I would just have just changed. I don't know why you care - it's just the party.

I think she should keep her bridesmaid dress on the entire time. It's your day not hers and she agreed to be a bridesmaid and with that comes with wearing the dress.

This was me! The dress was AWFUL! Uncomfortable, ugly, not flattering AT ALL! I wore it for the ceremony, for all the pictures. My SIL even said if I wanted to change into something more comfortable she wouldn’t mind at all. Her MOH and I both changed into something else, both cocktail attire appropriate. Let her do what she wants, it shouldn’t matter. At the end of the day the money came out of my pockets for both dresses, and she got the pictures she wanted.

I’d be fine with it. I’d want them to be as comfortable as possible! But like someone else said, as long as pictures are done with in the beginning, then I wouldn’t mind either.

I would be fine with it.

Since you said her intentions weren’t for comfort i’d flat out say no changing. It’s your day, you spent a lot of time picking out every detail and she agreed to be a bridesmaid so tell her to grow a pair and deal with it. I could understand if it were for comfort but if it’s just for sheer vanity then no.

That would piss me off.. especially with video through the party and photography

As long as she has the dress on for photos, the ceremony, and the reception entrance I wouldn't care what she did. Once they are announced into the reception they don't really hvae anything else to do that would give them attention. I was a bridesmaid in my cousins wedding in the winter time and we had sleeveless dresses. She gave us all flannels to wear while we got ready but every bridesmaid wore those flannels over our dresses the entire reception because we were all freezing. It was not a cute look, but my responisiblities for the night were over and the bride didn't care what we looked like because she was too busy with her new husband enjoying her night with friends and family, as you will be too.

I wouldn't care since all the pictures would be over with.

Would not sit well with me either and flat out no! When everything is completely over, change into whatever you want but as long as the festivities are going on the dress stays on. She should have said something about the dress before they were purchased. To change and look like a guest is an insult; I would have no problem telling her no.

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I agree! Bottom line - it's your day! If you don't want her to, tell her no. Doesn't matter why, doesn't matter if she's mad.

My MOH left shortly after her speech to go back to her hotel room like barely even 8pm.
Guess it didn't matter to me too much if people want to change short after bc our photographer wasn't there all night

Sounds kinda rude to me. I feel like she should suck it up and just wear the bm dress since she agreed to be part of the wedding party