Hey everyone, just looking for a neutral opinion on bridal party selection.
We have an idea of how many people, but comes down to two girls who are his sister in laws. One of them I only see once a year.
The second sister in law I feel I’m a lot closer. I’ve attended her gender reveal/baby shower this year. We have made trips to see them. Originally I thought I would ask both ladies to be bridesmaids fear of hurting somebody’s feelings. But now thinking about it I’m not loving that idea.
The sister in law I’m not close with I was thinking instead asking her to be a reader. I would also make sure she would receive invitations to any bridal activities. We have asked both both families to get their opinions. My parents think it’s a good idea, FH parents don’t agree.
Would it be rude having one sister in law be a bridesmaid and the other a reader?