Bridesmaid unfriended me on FB

Good for you girl, it is sucky to lose a friend and I am too losing one who is out of the Bp. But trust me it is for the best. She is stressing you out and you don't need that. You don't want to look at the wedding pics 5 years later and wish this person can be cropped out.

Sounds like she is just bringing you down and you don't need that negativity.

@Alterna- Yeah that's true. Better her out now than closer to the wedding.

Thanks! @bluebird54

Join the club lol I too lost a friend during this planning process you always get that 1..... or in some folks case they get 2 friends to show their true colors, disappear and hate on you from afar while secretly waiting to see how your wedding turned out lol.

She sounds toxic. She did you a favor.

Jealousy is the ultimate killer of friendships but in your case her jealousy of your mom is probably what is ending it and it is not normal of a real friend. Seek true friends and do not bother with her again or she will only hurt you. I tried to give mine the benefit of the doubt for a year but I think I ended getting hurt instead more and with 50 days left till my wedding I have finally decided on a 'see you later.'

@Soon2bMrsLittle- I was waiting to see how this ended up. I had a post about her before, she had problems with my mom. I am sad because she was or I thought she was a great friend but I am relieved because now I don't have to worry about her and my mom getting along.

@Sunshine Jenn- My sister just told me that, too. She's toxic and that she didn't trust her.

@Alterna- I guess not really a friend if she couldn't even write or call me back. I tried for two months and that's all I am going to do. I am done. I'm sorry about your situation but it's going to be the best in the long run.

Yea I think I remember your post now. Well my opinion any friend that has an issue with the woman who raised/birthed me shouldn't be my friend anyway. So it was time for her to kick rocks! Good thing she did at her own free will. Don't want to take the negative characters into a new chapter of your book ( your life)

Congratulations on dodging that bullet! You're better off!

Thanks @Soon2bMrsLittle. That's true, don't want her in a new chapter if she isn't really there to support me.

Thanks @Tatiana. I am feeling relieved. I'm glad it hasn't caused too much drama.

That was crappy of her, but you are right. She just beat you to it!

I too have lost a friend during wedding planning. It wasn't as quick and dirty ad your situation, but it still sucks

GettingHitched-- it does suck. i'm glad it was done now and not later. you really do see other's true colors. best of luck

Yay!! Ain't nobody got time for that

What a nut job, sounds like she did you a favour by leaving

You're definitely better off without her. She sounds like a terrible friend. Way to dodge a bullet!

Well good for her, you don't need the stress. Some people really show how much of a true friend they are when it comes to the other friend planning her wedding...jealousy kicks in...

Thanks ladies. Yeah, she was jealous. She doesn't think we're ready to get married because we've only been together for two years. I'm glad it's done and over with now before she caused drama with my mom.