Bridesmaid to moh

I have 2 MOH, my sister & my bestfriend. Neither of them were offended by me having 2. & my fiancé has 2 best men which neither were offended. I think you should just talk to your MOH and tell her that your relationship with your sister changed in a positive way and you want to add her as another MOH. She shouldn’t feel offended or catch an attitude, I mean there is a reason why you chose her as your MOH.

Assuming that your maid of honor is your good friend who understands your situation, I don’t think she would be offended at all. As far as your sister, you could probably just take her out to dinner or something and hand her a letter during dinner. I think that’s great that you and your sister have grown closer.

I don't think it would be offensive at all. i had two MOHs and i never looked at either one as more important or anything.

I don't think it would be offensive. It's common to have 2 MOHs. I would first talk to the current MOH to discuss this and let her know your plans. Then I would ask the sister if she would like to be a MOH along with the current one. With both of them talk about the growth in your relationship being part of this decision.

I have two MOHs! My FH is only having one best man, so he will escort both down the aisle. It’s a lot of responsibility to be a MOH so I think they are enjoying being able to help each other out. Also our sides are uneven so if your worried about that I wouldn’t! Seems to be more normal now a days.