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Bridesmaid showed my dress to people

Caitlin, on March 20, 2023 at 6:24 AM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 3
I went wedding dress shopping with all of my bridesmaids and ended up finding my dress, and of course pictures were taken. We all parted ways after and I asked for the pictures not to be shown to anyone. Well my dad calls me later that evening and says that he saw one of my girls at an event and she asked him not once, but twice if he wanted to see pictures of it, he told her both times no I do not I want to wait until the wedding. He then told me she was showing the pictures to a few of her girlfriends, one of which is someone I’ve known my whole life and is also invited to the wedding. We all know this is a scared thing to not share the dress right!? How do I approach this with her? I honestly feel betrayed

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Latest activity by CM, on March 20, 2023 at 10:27 AM
  • K
    Super September 2023
    Kimberly ·
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    Ugh I am so sorry that happened! I would call (not text) her right away and let her know that you’ve heard she’s shown the dress to a few people now, and you’re hoping to keep your dress a secret from everyone except those in attendance when you went shopping, so please don’t show anyone else the dress and if she wouldn’t mind just deleting the pictures from her phone. This should be obvious, but for whatever reason it’s not to her. I’m sure there’s no ill intent and she maybe hasn’t participated in a wedding before and got overly excited, but you should set her straight asap.
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  • Shannon
    Super July 2022
    Shannon ·
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    That was rude of her. Did she send the pics out?
    I agree that you should call her and voice your disappointment and tell her to delete pics. She may be excited, but they are not her pics to share.
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    CM ·
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    This was very inconsiderate of her, especially since you specifically asked people not to share. Not that you should even have to remind anyone with any common sense. I'd give her the benefit of the doubt and assume she is clueless and didn't hear or wasn't paying attention. Call her, as suggested and ask her to please not to share again with anyone in the future. You can ask her to please delete the photos but really how would you know?

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