Hi all. I’m in the very early beginning stages of planning. I’m really struggling with the bridal party.
I have 4 extremely close friends, who will absolutely be my bridesmaids. No one cares about the maid of honor title, but each want to take on certain elements of MOH duties. And two of them would be amazing with planning things out, though they aren’t exactly who I wanted to give the MOH title to.
Any ideas for different titles? They are the most laid back group of lovely ladies, so I’m not worried about feelings being hurt about splitting up duties or titles. If anything I think they’ll be excited to each have a special title!
I know there’s maid of honor (who funny enough, I want to give that to the one I’ve known the longest but who probably wouldn’t have as much of a role in any of the planning of events because two others want to do that).
I was considering doing Maid of Honor for her, as really I’m so happy she has been in my life for as long as she has, and she is like a sister.
Then I was considering “Chief Bridesmaid” for my closest friend in adulthood (whom I’ve known the least amount of time) because she wants to plan the parties and has a calm laid back personality which is so helpful.
I have another great close friend who is so organized and an amazing leader, also very calm and laid back, who would do a fantastic job helping the above person. They both agreed they would love to plan together! Any title ideas for her?
Then I have my fourth/remaining bridesmaid. I’m not sure that she will want as big of a role in planning things as she has so much going on, but she is a close friend and has been a big part of my life just like the above 4. I would want her to also have a title.
What roles/titles have your bridesmaids had? I also want to emphasize I’ve briefly talked about this idea with all of them, and they loved it! There will be no hard feelings, jealousy, etc. They’re an amazing bunch!