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Kate
Savvy October 2021

Bridesmaid Proposals

Kate, on September 9, 2020 at 6:23 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 10
So, I’m having 6 bridesmaids total and they all pretty much already know they are in my wedding, but I haven’t officially asked them yet. Is it bad if I ask 4 of them while we are on vacation together and the other 2 over the next week? I’m just too excited to give them their little gifts and I’m not sure the next time we will all be together.

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Latest activity by Dayna, on September 10, 2020 at 2:44 PM
  • Kristen
    Master November 2020
    Kristen ·
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    I was never asked with the other bridesmaids ha ha. We were all asked at different times so that is okay. Maybe ask them not to post anything?

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  • Lisa
    Rockstar July 2022
    Lisa ·
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    I agree with the previous comment - I think it's totally fine to ask them at different times, but I would suggest requesting that no one posts anything on social media until all bridesmaids have been asked.
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  • J
    Master October 2022
    Jana ·
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    Outside of Pinterest, most bridesmaid proposals are pretty simple one on one conversations, whether in person or over the phone with no one else in attendance. The gift boxes are nice but not necessary or that common.


    Do what works for you.
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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
    Cyndy ·
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    Absolutely fine. It’s rare to be able to get everyone together anyway.
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I think that sounds fine !

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  • Kate
    Savvy October 2021
    Kate ·
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    Ohh good point about not posting anything! Thanks for the input!
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  • Yasmine
    Master October 2020
    Yasmine ·
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    All of my bridesmaids were asked at a different time, I don’t think it’s a problem!
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  • T
    Beginner July 2021
    Taylor ·
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    I only asked mine at all different times. I don't think you have to ask them all at the same time.

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  • Bethany
    Dedicated October 2021
    Bethany ·
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    I've never been asked at the same time as other 'maids and honestly, I prefer it that way! It makes the moment a little more intimate and special. I plan on asking mine separately, likely over the course of a whole month! Like others have said I'll just be asking them not to post on social media about it.

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  • Dayna
    Expert September 2021
    Dayna ·
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    I asked two of mine together, and the other three separately because I never see them all at the same time. You could sit the 4 down all together and ask, or pull them aside individually, but I think either is fine! I agree with PP about asking them not to post. It was months in between when I was able to do my first and last proposals, so I asked the early ones not to post anything until I had asked the others.

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