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Haylie
Dedicated October 2021

Bridesmaid officiating

Haylie, on June 19, 2020 at 2:44 PM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 4
My fiancé and I would prefer to have a close friend officiate our wedding vs someone we hire, as we feel it’s much more personal and they know us much better as a couple. However, all of our close friends are already in our bridal party. I had seen it down before where a bridesmaid officiated the wedding, same dress, was involved in all the same bridesmaid activities, but just stood in a different place to actually officiate the couple. This is something we were looking into, but I’m just wondering how the older generation would look at it ? If they would think it’s wrong or “weird”? Let me know what you think !

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Latest activity by Anais, on June 19, 2020 at 3:51 PM
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    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I think that would be fine! they would need to walk down the aisle first though just because an officiant can announce stuff like please turn off phones, etc.

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    Dedicated October 2021
    Megan ·
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    I think it could work out logistically, but heads up--there's a reason that there is an existing business of officiants for hire. It's definitely a job. It requires a bit more certification, "training," and meetings with bride/groom than your typical maid of honor speech. I've seen this happen with a friend of mine that was asked to officiate... it can be a lot to put on a close friend, especially one that isn't a professional. Even someone who's good with public speaking (the friend I mentioned) can really struggle with officiating. Just something to keep in mind.

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  • Jessica
    Master September 2020
    Jessica ·
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    We have a friend who has officiated for other friends while being in the bridal party and it worked out just fine. I agree that it can be much more personal. We discussed having everyone in our wedding party do a reading or a portion of the ceremony, and now the friend we decided to have officiate may not make it so we may be back to that.
    When I talked to my mom about it her concern was if it was legal (yes, in CO we don’t need an officiant at all), and if they understood the difference between a best man/maid of honor speech and officiating 🙄.
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    Super December 2020
    Anais ·
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    One of my bridesmaid will be our officiant!
    I’ve been to a wedding before where the best man was the officiant and it went really well.
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