I’m going to try to make this long story short.
I already have 8 bridesmaids picked out and that’s already more than I wanted. My fiancée wants his two cousins (he is close with them as they grew up together) as my bridesmaids but I don’t want them to be. He was a groomsmen in one of the cousins wedding. It’s not that I don’t like his cousins but 1. I’m not that close to them 2. I already have more bridesmaids than I already want. 3. If I ask them then I have to ask my cousin too. I have to draw the line somewhere.
I don’t think I should feel obligated to ask them even though he was in one of there weddings. If they were boys then he could pick them to be groomsmen. I really don’t want to offend them but I can’t cut out my family and girls that I’m close with for his two cousins that I only see twice a year.
i told him we can include them in other ways and that it doesn’t mean they can’t participate. They can always be in charge of the guest book and programs. He doesn’t see it my way. I also think my mother in law is offended that I don’t want to have her nieces in the wedding. I’m trying not to be selfish and I’m trying to make everyone happy but this is really stressing me out.
Am I wrong for thinking this way??
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