Bridesmaid not responding to texts or calls - it's been 3 weeks!

People get wrapped into their own lives, and it's no surprise since she's pregnant and a huge deal. Give her some time, you still have plenty of time before your wedding.

I would send her a heart felt card to express your feelings. She's probably just fearful of ruining your wedding/friendship, so at this point, it may be easier for her to ignore you. Can you reach out to her significant other?

I'm having a similar problem, but it's my MOH and she's the only one in the bridal party..aaacckk. I'm just giving her space for now. I'll see her at Christmas and hopefully things will be better for her.

I'm trying to give her space, but she also has a trip planned to see me and visit in January, and I also want to know if she is still coming! At this rate, I don't see that happening. We both have exciting things going on in our lives, and I genuinely do want to catch up. It's sad!

@kristenann - I haven't met her significant other yet. The two of them were to come visit in January so we could meet him. Sigh.

When is your wedding? and what kind of details do you need to talk through with her?

try calling her and not mentioning your wedding. just doing and tell her that you love her and to let you know if you can do anything for her. how far does she live? maybe you can go visit her instead of her coming to see you?

Sweetheart, she just found out she's pregnant. No doubt she is overwhelmed with calls and messages from people just like you, on top of being scared and sick. I mean this with all the love in my heart, but this one isn't about you or your wedding- I understand you need to know what the deal is, but you have time. I would personally send her flowers and say something like, 'I am so happy for your news! I can't wait to be there for you on this journey!' Give her an out for the wedding too. She may be scared, because who the hell knows what her life will look like by the time your wedding is here.

My wedding is in July, so I know it is a bit away, but am starting to plan having the bridesmaids try on their dresses. I'm in school getting my master's, so I've told all my bridesmaids that December/January (during my break) is when I am going to be in full blown planning mode. If I wait until May when the semester ends, it's way too close.

I called her two days ago with the plan of not mentioning my wedding at all, only talking about her, but she didn't answer and I left a voicemail. She is about 3 hours away from me.

Thanks everyone for your comments! I am trying to be patient, I know she has a major life change on her hands! It is difficult to accept her not responding to my congratulatory messages when she is on Facebook posting all of the time. Oh, social media