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Mrs.Henderson2b
Expert June 2018

Bridesmaid no show

Mrs.Henderson2b, on June 15, 2018 at 11:04 PM

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Welp guys, tomorrow is our big day and....... one of my bridesmaids didn’t not show for rehearsal. Come to find out, she never picked up her dress from the bridal shop. I have known this girl for years and never in a million years would i think she would do this to me. I’m kinda hurt feelings wise...
Welp guys, tomorrow is our big day and....... one of my bridesmaids didn’t not show for rehearsal. Come to find out, she never picked up her dress from the bridal shop. I have known this girl for years and never in a million years would i think she would do this to me. I’m kinda hurt feelings wise but more shocked than anything. She didn’t even have the decency to call or text me. Let this be a lesson To all of you who are planning, please please please choose your party members wisely.

On a brighter note: IM GETTING MARRIED TOMORROW!! 🤗🤗🤗🤗

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  • Shai
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    Shai ·
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    If she was a real friend she wouldn’t have did that BS. I would most definitely tell her about herself when you come back. But you’re about to get married that’s the most important thing, your gonn be there and your man will be there. SN I can’t wait to see your BAM!
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  • Mrs.Henderson2b
    Expert June 2018
    Mrs.Henderson2b ·
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    Now that’s a very true statement! Trust me I’ve learned a lot in the past 16 months and have seen everyone’s true colors.
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  • FutureMrsHarris18
    Expert July 2018
    FutureMrsHarris18 ·
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    That is so inconsiderate.... hopefully this doesn't damage your friendship. Best wishes today!!
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  • FutureMrsHarris18
    Expert July 2018
    FutureMrsHarris18 ·
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    Oh me too ... cost a friendship! I can't even look at her without getting pissed off.
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  • Crystal
    Devoted July 2018
    Crystal ·
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    Both of my sister's backed out on me a few weeks ago. Both were in my bridal party. I know how you feel. I was so upset about the way they did me. I have 28 days, and none of my siblings are even coming, that's 3 older siblings.
    I pray you have a beautiful wedding with the people that love you the most. Everything will be great. Her loss not yours. 😊
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  • L
    Dedicated September 2018
    Leora ·
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    Oh my goodness I’m so sorry that happened! Maybe something came up emergently? If not then that is absolutely horrible. I hope you enjoy your day anyways!
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  • A
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    Adjoa ·
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    Congratulations. Today is your day. ENJOY
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  • T
    Expert September 2018
    Tia_Fred ·
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    I'm glad u have a great attitude about the situation. Its her loss cause with or without her ur gonna have the greatest day of ur life tomorrow u are marrying ur best friend and that's what matters and in glad u aren't letting her bother u. Apparently she isnt a true friend cause a true friend would be there with u on one of the most important days of ur life. Have a great day and I hooe ur day is filled with love, laughter and fun!!!
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  • B
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    B11 ·
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    Did you reach out to her after she didn’t show at the rehearsal last night?
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  • Priscilla
    Devoted August 2018
    Priscilla ·
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    Im sorry that happened to you. She doesn't deserve to be in your wedding
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  • DC Wife 10.27.18
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    DC Wife 10.27.18 ·
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    I’m so sorry this happened! Don’t think about it for another second and just enjoy your BIG DAY!!!
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  • Allie
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    Allie ·
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    Wow! Thats crazy! I cant even imagine what i would do! But yayyyyy!!!!! have a great day tomorrow!

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  • Carol
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    Carol ·
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    Like.... WOW. Is there a deeper issue going on? Maybe you can reach out to her in a week or two after the sting is gone? If someone is struggling with depression or anxiety or something they hide it as long as theh can. Or she felt embarrassed about some personal things going on in her life?

    I mean how hurtful. I would be so hurt if i were you, BUT in the long run you are getting married to your best friend which is AMAZING- since there is nothing you can do about it now just breathe and enjoy YOUR weekend!
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  • Denise
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    I'm glad you are not sweating it... missing events and not picking up her dress is pretty much her confirmation that she doesn't want to be apart of the wedding. I wouldn't invest any more energy into her, doesn't sound like you are which is awesome! Enjoy your wedding day tomorrow and congratulations.
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  • Catjam
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    Catjam ·
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    So sorry, but you are right! Enjoy your big day and let her contact you when or if she's ready. YOU have lots going on to spend time dwelling on it. Forgive, forget and congrats!
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  • Disney Bride2020
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    WOW!!!!! how awful just let it go and focous on your wedding and how beautiful you will look

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  • Emilie
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    Emilie ·
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    That stinks! But glad you're able to stay positive about it. My MOH just told me last night that her and her boyfriend are no longer taking precautions to not get pregnant... our wedding is just over 9 months away! And shes supposed to fly out here! So yeah... didnt really know how to take that.. lol
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