It was hard choosing my maid of honor between two friends. I chose the one that I have spent more time with the past few years, been through things together and doesn't make things about her all the time. I made the other friend I have known for 10+ years like a sister my 1st Bridesmaid that could help share some roles with the maid of honor if they wished. Already picked out the perfect color and dress for her. Well I met her and asked her to be my bridesmaid. I knew she wasn't completely happy cause she had a bit of attitude. I wake up to a long text. I'm saddened and really don't know how to respond. She said that she's shocked, upset, and feels betrayed that since we grew up together and are like sisters that she can't be in my wedding as a bridesmaid because she's more than that in her eyes. Maid of honor is a different name for a reason and it's your closest friend usually family. If I don't think so than that is ok it's my wedding and my day and wishes me the best. What are your thoughts?