After reading through hours of previous posts, I'm sure this question has been asked but I can't find a search bar to read before asking a question that's been answered. So for that, I'm sorry! Please bare with me!
My FMIL is desperately wanted to host the BM luncheon for me, I'm grateful for that because I was under the impression that was my job. I am getting married on a Friday. She says proper etiquette is to do it the day before (she is all about etiquette). I already feel bad for asking my bridal party to ask off on Friday, and do not want to ask them to take off on Thursday as well. Her next suggestion is the morning of and just do an early brunch. Wow! Talk about a busy morning. All of my girls want to get their hair done with me so we have to be there at 9:00am and my appointment is at 11:00am. There's no way a BM brunch or lunch could be that day.
Is it frowned upon to have it the weekend before? Or should I just bite the bullet and ask them to do it on Thursday?