Hello! I have a bridesmaid who I admittedly asked to be my bridesmaid far too early and without enough thought. My original wedding was cancelled due to covid and she didn’t reach out in my original day and has been selfish and distant ever since. Our friendship wasn’t strong before I asked her and I’ve always put more into the relationship with her. We have had to cut our guest list for the next wedding and the cost per head is INSANE. My gut is telling me to uninvite her but I HATE confrontation. Like more than anything, but she hates it even more.
I have no clue how to uninvite her - but my heart is really telling me I don’t want her to be apart of my most important day now that I have had time to reflect about what the day really means to me.
TLDR: Bridemaid has been distant, gut telling me to uninvite her. Friendship feels like it’s run it’s course, we have nothing in common and it’s been a full time job to tend to the relationship with nothing in return.