Bridesmaid groomsman pairing

I don't see a problem with it- one of my bridesmaids is 28 and she's paired with someone who is nearly 40.

I don't think that's a big deal. Usually they just walk out of the wedding together. It's not like they have to date hahaha.

It doesn't matter at all in my opinion. We are pairing my height for the recessional and entering the reception. That's the only times they are together.

Does she think they will be on a date? I am unsure of why this would even be questioned lol

I don't think its' a big deal. They are just walking down the aisle together and maybe into the reception.

I don't think it's a big deal at all! Nobody is going to notice or make a big deal out of it (except your mom)

What difference does their ages make? All they are doing is walking together, and having pictures taken. It's not like you're setting people up on dates. Age shouldn't make any difference at all. Your bridal party should be the people closest to you and FH, regardless of age.

Height is a good idea!

In the last wedding I was in, a tall groomsmen nearly dislocated my shoulder. Granted, he didn't know how to link arms with a woman.

If you're concerned, ask the BMs how they feel.

I don't see where age comes in to play here actually... Its not like they are being married off to each other lol. My youngest bridesmaid is 24 and oldest is 34 and in our grooms they all range from 21 to 26. I don't see where the age plays a role. I'd tell your mom thanks for the concern but its not a big deal.

I don't see an issue with it - They're just walking down & out together. It's not like they have to spend any more time with each other.