One of my bridesmaids lives in a different state, so I texted her that she may need to go on her own to get her dress. I also texted her the location of the nearest David's Bridal to her, and told her to pick any style other than what the MOH chose, and to get a long dress in the wine colour. I told her I had to double check the material of the dress. The very next day I got a text from her saying "got the dress! and it has pockets!", and I could tell from the photo that it wasn't the right material (hers was satin, I wanted Chiffon but I hadn't had the chance to tell her that, so she didn't know). I had assumed that she would give me heads up when she was going to the store or that she would facetime me while she was there, but she didn't (I shouldn't have assumed though). I freaked out internally, but didn't say anything other than it looked good on her. Yesterday I went to David's bridal with the last 2 bridesmaids and they both got chiffon dresses (which is what I wanted, but I didn't tell them because I figured if one of them got a satin dress then we could make it work). I found a satin dress to compare to the chiffon dresses, and the colours are very slightly different. I'm worried that it'll look weird to have one bridesmaid wearing a different material than the others. I know she can return the dress she go and get a new one, but I feel bad making her go back to the store (it's about 30 min from her campus) and find a new one. I don't want to be a bride-zilla, but I feel like this would bother me in the photos.
What should I do? The wedding is early July.
Left is Satin, right is chiffon.
(with flash)
(without flash)