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Ana
Expert December 2017

Bridesmaid gifts that aren't robes?

Ana, on June 6, 2017 at 7:31 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 30

I'm having 5 bridesmaids and 2 of them are doing their hair and makeup with some off site stylists instead of at the venue where the rest of us will be. They are meeting us later on around noon which isn't a big deal because the wedding doesn't start until 5 pm. I'm not sure if should gift them...

I'm having 5 bridesmaids and 2 of them are doing their hair and makeup with some off site stylists instead of at the venue where the rest of us will be. They are meeting us later on around noon which isn't a big deal because the wedding doesn't start until 5 pm.

I'm not sure if should gift them robes if we aren't all getting ready together...unless they put on the robes just for pictures when they got there? Anyways, what are some ideas of bridesmaid gifts that aren't robes????

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  • J
    Savvy August 2017
    JOYCE ·
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    The last 2 weddings I was in I didnt get anything from the bride so I think whatever you get they will love! My bridesmaids only spent $100 each and I bought the rest (jewelry, shoes, makeup, and their hair did). My bridesmaids like crap like the tumblers with their favorite wine or liquor to put in them. I wanted to get them something that would remind them of this special day. I will get them a birthday present on their birthday but my wedding day is my day for them to share with me and the gift should be something to remind them of that special day. When you are on a budget, little things are special not concert tickets. This isn't a raffle! Make them something to remind them of your special day and how they are appreciated for being their for you.

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  • Nonna T
    Master April 2014
    Nonna T ·
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    Yeah those prop robes are def not gifts and not everyone feels comfortable wearing one much less getting photographed in it.

    I like the idea of a spa gc even for just a mani and or pedi that they can use any time, again, not for the wedding. Along with a nice card with a heartfelt and personal message thanking each one.

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  • Alexandra
    Super October 2017
    Alexandra ·
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    Since some of my bridesmaids are flying in for the wedding I was thinking of getting them a gift card to their favorite stores (Lululemon REI, Macy's, etc) tucked into a thoughtful card. That way its easy for them to take home in their luggage. I'll also be buying us all "prop" getting ready outfits of pj sets for getting ready photos.

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  • J
    Savvy August 2017
    JOYCE ·
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    @Nonna T.... I love the idea of spa gift card or mani or pedi... oh well too late now... Tumblers will have to do. Lol

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  • N
    Master December 2016
    Nancy ·
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    Finance some or all of their dresses.

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  • Yoomie
    VIP October 2018
    Yoomie ·
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    I brought individual gifts as there are such different personalities and perspectives in my bridal party to gift them something uniform. I did getting-ready robes separate from the gifts as the robes were required (by me) for the getting-ready photos while their gifts were a "thank you".

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  • K
    Devoted May 2018
    K ·
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    Instead of doing flower bouquets, I had my BMs tell me their favorite book. I'm going to purchase a nice copy of each book and inscribe a letter on the front cover and that will double as their bouquet and gift. My mother and FMIL are both getting books too. FH decided he liked this idea he's doing the same from the GM and our fathers, though they will probably not carry them during the ceremony. I'm going to carry my FH's copy of Lord of the Rings and that's going to be my something borrowed Smiley smile

    So, all that to say....books.

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  • Maggie
    Dedicated September 2017
    Maggie ·
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    My prop is floral rompers, cause we will be moving locations and I thought maybe 1 or 2 might wear it again! Maybeeeeee

    Gifts, I'm doing special interests to my girls: A few love jewelry so I'm doing this membership; https://www.rocksbox.com/ And then signing up a few for wine club things like that!

    Good luck!

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  • Casey
    Savvy January 2018
    Casey ·
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    If you wanted something for them to get ready in, like a robe, matching flannel is cute! Maybe monogram their initials on the pocket?


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  • WorthTheWait
    Devoted December 2018
    WorthTheWait ·
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    Robes are not gifts . Very important point. My favorite gift I got was a beautiful sterling silver compact/mirror with my monogram on it. Every time I take it out of my purse, I remember the wedding and my awesome BFF!

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