I am struggling with what to get my bridesmaids. I took advice from the forum to get each one something personal that they would love. But then someone suggested that I shouldn't get something that won't last. I was going to get one of the girls a pair of shoes from a brand I know she likes, but shoes last 3 years, not 30. Things that last would be jewelry, fine kitchen items, things like that? I'm at a loss now.