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Bridesmaid Expenses

Laney, on November 5, 2022 at 2:20 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 4

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What are the expenses I should pay for or help with when it comes to my bridesmaids? Or the groom for his groomsmen?

Me and my fiancé are having a wedding with a strict budget (we are both college students). So far I've been able to cut some corners but I'm a little stumped on my bridesmaids. They're awesome girls and I am willing to help out as much as I can but I know I won't be able to pay completely for all of them. I am definitely getting them each gifts and I'll help pay for their dresses but should I also consider paying for hair and makeup? Two of my bridesmaids are makeup artists and have already said that they are fine with doing makeup for the wedding but I don't want to put too much pressure on them or make them feel like I'm taking advantage of them

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Latest activity by Jacks, on November 6, 2022 at 6:56 PM

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Veronica · on November 5, 2022 at 3:20 PM
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Unless you require them to have their hair or makeup professionally done then you aren't responsible for covering the cost. You also aren't responsible for paying for their dresses as long as you pick a dress within their budget. The only things you are typically responsible for are covering their meals and drinks at the rehearsal dinner and wedding and a thank you gift.
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Michelle · on November 5, 2022 at 4:07 PM
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Everyone’s list will be different. The basics that a bridesmaid covers herself are the dress (along with alterations as needed), hair and makeup, any accessories (jewelry, shoes, etc). If the bridesmaid is cohosting the bridal shower and/or the bachelorette party, she will contribute to those expenses as well, which are both optional. The only other expenses are covering your own lodging and travel (rental car). Bridesmaids do not pay for their own food/beverages, except at a bachelorette party.
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Michael · on November 5, 2022 at 4:54 PM
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The bridesmaids would typically cover their own costs as described before. One exception is if you are desiring to have certain makeup or hairstyles at added cost -- or as a group preparation. If they agree to your desire in this area, then you should pay the cost for group hair and makeup Otherwise, they are left to their own decisions on how they will get ready. One friend on a limited budget even had to help pay for her bridesmaid's dress -- so things can work in reverse at times.
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Jacks · on November 6, 2022 at 6:56 PM
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Bridesmaid usually pay for their dress. Anything extra that you're requiring should be covered by you.
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