Okay so I’m getting married July 1st and I have a childhood friend, lets call her M, we don’t talk much but we’ve been friends for a very long time so I asked her to be my bridesmaid. Now M has always had a poor taste in men but recently her boyfriend asked if he could leave his car at her house while he stayed with his mom for a while. She allowed it and the police showed up and charged her with possession of a stolen vehicle and possession of heroin (which was in the car). No one has the money to bail her out outright and the bail bondsmen want nothing to do with it because these are felony charges in her state.
Now my question is, do I proceed without her? Do I continue to plan the wedding assuming she won’t be there? The trials are backed up because of covid and I was told that if they are collecting evidence that it could take 4-12months before her trial. Is it rude to remove her from the wedding? especially when I can’t contact her to let her know? She hasn’t paid for anything, I bought her dress and accessories, so there’s no loss of money on her end. What is the etiquette for this????
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